Pay attention, ladies and gentlemen. The introduction and lyrics are the most important aspect of this song. Women as well, as men must critique and analyze their potential partners. We cannot be “hoodwinked” by the flash and glitz of the material and physical trappings of attraction money and looks are transitory. We must look deeply into the soul and heart of a person first. What is most important is that we must be able to decide what are the traits we desire in a person. Outline your likes and dislikes, objectively without thinking of anyone. You must love and have confidence in yourself before you can even attempt to be with anyone else.  How do you know that you like or love him or her if you haven’t quantified the personality and requirements first?

If you are blessed to find that special person. Hold on to them, cherish them, respect and appreciate them because they are a blessing for and to you.

This is an excellent song by Lyfe Jennings from his upcoming August new release, I Still Believe.