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By Jenna Goudreau
Do not underestimate a first impression. According to 2011 research by Harvard Medical School and Massachusetts General Hospital, people assess your competence and trustworthiness in a quarter of a second 250 milliseconds–based solely on how you look. “Appearance is extraordinarily powerful because it’s the first filter,” says Sylvia Ann Hewlett, an economist and the founding president of the Center for Talent Innovation CTI in New York. “So how do you look the part?” According to her new year-long study of over 4,000 college-educated professionals and 268 senior executives, conducted by CTI and in partnership with Marie Claire magazine, looking like a leader is the first step to becoming one. In order to portray “executive presence,” superiors must perceive you as having gravitas, excellent communication skills and a polished appearance. While appearance was deemed less important than gravitas and communication skills, it’s the very first thing people see. So a major grooming mistake can instantly undermine your chances of showing just how good you really are. From the CTI researchers’ interviews with high-level leaders, these emerged as the top seven physical traits that you’re being judged on.
No. 1: Grooming
According to the research, good grooming habits—looking “polished” or “pulled together”—is a professional’s most important physical asset.
Read More The Seven Ways Your Boss Is Judging Your Appearance – Forbes.
By Felicia R. Lee
Kerry Washington starts with the shoes. To portray Olivia Pope, the tough crisis manager at the center of the hit ABC series “Scandal,” Ms. Washington is always in gravity-defying heels. How else to make that sexed-up power stalk down the White House corridors?
“I never completely understand a character until I know what kind of shoes they wear,” Ms. Washington said. For an interview at Milk Studios here, she was in a pair of intimidating white high heels. But Ms. Washington is often in sneakers or flip-flops, a clue for anyone trying to understand her. “It says I’m not really attracted to walking in the world in any one way,” she explained. “I like to walk in the world a lot of different ways.”
Those ways have ranged from the role of the slave Broomhilda in Quentin Tarantino’s recent “Django Unchained” to the pampered Grace Peeples in the modern romantic comedy “Peeples,” out on May 10. But it has been through the intimacy and reach of television that Ms. Washington, 36, has arrived in the center of a major cultural discussion. Thanks to “Scandal,” she is only the second black woman in almost 40 years to lead a network television drama, and the first one to make it a bona fide hit. Ratings for the political thriller, which began last April, have been building all season; it now beats its rival at 10 p.m. on Thursday — “Elementary” on CBS — many weeks among viewers 18 to 49, the demographic advertisers covet most.
Read More The Weight Those Heels Carry – NYTimes.com.
By Sofia Perpetua
A dissident Roman Catholic group ordained a 70-year-old woman a priest in Louisville, Kentucky, during a ceremony attended by hundreds on Saturday. About 150 women from all over the world have been ordained in defiance of the Roman Catholic Church that bans them from becoming priests. Rosemarie Smead will be starting her own congregation and she told Reuters she is not worried about being excommunicated.”It is a medieval bullying stick the bishops used to keep control over people and to keep the voices of women silent,” she said. “I am way beyond letting octogenarian men tell us how to live our lives.”Smead, a former Carmelite nun with a bachelors in theology and a doctorate in counseling psychology, wept throughout the ceremony.According to a recent New York Times/CBS News poll, seventy percent of U.S. Catholics believe women should be allowed to be priests.In a statement last week, Louisville Archbishop Joseph E. Kurtz called the planned ceremony by the Association of Roman Catholic Women Priests a “simulated ordination” in opposition to Catholic teaching. “The simulation of a sacrament carries very serious penal sanctions in Church law, and Catholics should not support or participate in Saturdays event,” Kurtz said.
Read More Kentucky woman ordained as priest by dissident Roman Catholics – U.S. News.
By Manish Mehta
The brief and bizarre Tim Tebow era in New York is finally over. The Jets officially waived the lightning-rod quarterback on Monday after months of speculation about his future on a team that marginalized him last season. General manager John Idzik and Rex Ryan informed Tebow Monday morning at the Jets facility that they were pulling the plug. “We have a great deal of respect for Tim Tebow,” Ryan said in a statement. “Unfortunately, things did not work out the way we all had hoped. Tim is an extremely hard worker, evident by the shape he came back in this offseason. We wish him the best moving forward.” A team official told the Daily News over the weekend that Tebow was “probably gone” soon.And he was. If Tebow isn’t claimed off waivers, the Jets will owe him $1.5 million, per terms of the trade with the Broncos last year. The Jets cleared about $1 million in salary cap space by parting ways with Tebow. The Jets did Tebow no favors by keeping him for as long as they did this offseason. He would have likely had a better opportunity to find a new team if he were released during free agency or before the draft. The team’s decision to draft Geno Smith in the second round last Friday gave them six quarterbacks on the roster. Now, they’re down to Mark Sanchez, David Garrard, Greg McElroy, Matt Simms and Smith. Tebow was never a part of the Jets’ plans for 2013. Idzik tried trading him for months, but there were no takers. The team’s last-ditch effort to move him during the draft last week was fruitless, paving the way for his departure. Rex Ryan & Co. had big plans last summer after the Jets traded away a fourth-round pick for Tebow, but his presence proved to be a distraction that stunted Sanchez’s growth. Ryan ratcheted up the intrigue by claiming that Tebow’s ability to be a Wildcat threat would provide a valuable dimension to the offense. He claimed that Tebow could be used as many as 20 plays a game, but none of the rhetoric came to fruition. A year after Tebow captivated with the NFL with a magical run to the playoffs with the Broncos, he was a nonfactor with the Jets. The Jets tried out Tebow as a quarterback, H-back and personal punt protector, but he never became anything more than a footnote on a bad team. When Ryan ultimately benched the struggling Sanchez late in the season, the head coach bypassed Tebow to play third-stringer Greg McElroy. After McElroy suffered a concussion after his first career start, Ryan went back to Sanchez for the season finale rather than give Tebow a chance to start. Tebow completed only six of eight passes and had 32 carries for 102 yards and no touchdowns in 77 snaps last season. Tebow’s future in the NFL remains unclear. The Jaguars, who were interested in dealing for Tebow last year, aren’t expected to be interested.”I can’t imagine a scenario where Tebow would be a Jacksonville Jaguar,” Jags GM David Caldwell said in January… even if he’s released.” His NFL options are limited. Would new Chargers head coach Mike McCoy, who was the Broncos’ offensive coordinator in Denver during Tebow’s magical 2011 ride, be interested? How about the Patriots? The Orlando Predators of the Arena Football League made it clear last month that they’d like to have him.”Tim would certainly want to first exhaust his opportunities in the NFL, but we’d love to have him,” Brett Bouchy told the Orlando Sentinel at the time. “I think he would definitely improve as a quarterback in our league… Everything in the Arena League is just so much faster and quicker and predicated on accuracy. Whenever Tim is willing, we have a contract waiting for him to sign.”That may one of the few options that Tebow has left.
Read More Jets release quarterback Tim Tebow | New York Daily News.
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